Thursday, 7 November 2013

            Children are naturally adamant(they won't do what they are told to )stubborn(in getting whatever they wish for),impolite(behaving rudely to guests or other children pathetically parents are joined in this wagon too),greed(It may be just a toy or dress one's friends),jealousy(It often came when their parents compare them with other kids).If you let them behave in the same way you are likely to destroy their moral character.
           I saw some parents bragging with a wide grin "oh.My kids know how to get what they want","My daughter always call me by name","He is so brave and undaunted he never fears anyone"(yeah he's never afraid of his parents too after some time they'll never be able to guide the kids.I'm using the word "guide" not control.Many parents imagine discipline=control that's so wrong .Guide them walk with them side by side,understand their strength and weakness.
         But the problem is people are moving towards achievement not building a character.They just want to talk about their kids achievements all day that's fine what about their character?Did you ever see a parent brags about his child being polite,kind and good character but have no academic achievement?.We gave grades to our children in exams more than correcting their faults individually.We are developing superbrains more than good human being.We are destroying the humanity and individuality within them.We forget they are the next generation we are going to leave this earth for them.Question is are they ready to make this earth a better place to live.This longing still continues.

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