My mother knows how to do something different from what others are doing.but she is always unaware of this fact.I never saw my dad flattering my mom for her culinary skills so she always think she's not that good in cooking.
Truth is ,Dad always loves my mom's cooking but he is not expressive.I think most of the husbands failed in this area of appreciating their wife's skills so that they believe they can't do anything better for the rest of their lives.Now -a-days situation is different ladies get education ,standing on their own feet . ladies are becoming career -oriented too.back then in 70's women are totally family oriented .They rely on their husband's appreciation and encouragement for happiness. I don't blame my Dad ,in India ,men are brought up like they are some what superior and special than women.I can say most of the men doesn't know the true value of women and the real meaning of marriage.I doubt the same for women too.
I remember the words i hear somewhere "Treat your wife like a queen you are a king already".I feel some men are afraid to treat their wife in that way just because "what if she starts dominating me?" or They simply felt "I don't want my wife to compete with me". May be they let her earn and career oriented but the honest comment on her actions only make her shine brighter.
some men are blind to their wife's flaws and they simply gave her a nod for everything.They like to be submissive in order to escape from conflict between them. So these women starts to believe whatever they're doing is right.not at all.
Honest criticisms are necessary for personal growth and good bonding between relation ships.I personally feel people are misusing this criticism .They like to overdoing it again and again until the relationship got rotten.If you love somebody truly then your criticism will help them grow and achieve their goal in life.some criticize others for pleasure ,some doing it just to bring someone to their knees.
Insecurities inside us always bring bad comments.We must correct ourselves in the area we criticize others.Then only we know the problems they are facing and the empathy for them will grow.
Every individual is different in their own way if we learn to respect the differnce most of the problems will be easily solved.
Truth is ,Dad always loves my mom's cooking but he is not expressive.I think most of the husbands failed in this area of appreciating their wife's skills so that they believe they can't do anything better for the rest of their lives.Now -a-days situation is different ladies get education ,standing on their own feet . ladies are becoming career -oriented too.back then in 70's women are totally family oriented .They rely on their husband's appreciation and encouragement for happiness. I don't blame my Dad ,in India ,men are brought up like they are some what superior and special than women.I can say most of the men doesn't know the true value of women and the real meaning of marriage.I doubt the same for women too.
I remember the words i hear somewhere "Treat your wife like a queen you are a king already".I feel some men are afraid to treat their wife in that way just because "what if she starts dominating me?" or They simply felt "I don't want my wife to compete with me". May be they let her earn and career oriented but the honest comment on her actions only make her shine brighter.
some men are blind to their wife's flaws and they simply gave her a nod for everything.They like to be submissive in order to escape from conflict between them. So these women starts to believe whatever they're doing is right.not at all.
Honest criticisms are necessary for personal growth and good bonding between relation ships.I personally feel people are misusing this criticism .They like to overdoing it again and again until the relationship got rotten.If you love somebody truly then your criticism will help them grow and achieve their goal in life.some criticize others for pleasure ,some doing it just to bring someone to their knees.
Insecurities inside us always bring bad comments.We must correct ourselves in the area we criticize others.Then only we know the problems they are facing and the empathy for them will grow.
Every individual is different in their own way if we learn to respect the differnce most of the problems will be easily solved.
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